Review of ​Only Son by Kevin Moffett

​Only Son by Kevin Moffett is a novel about a boy and then a man reckoning with his father’s death, raising a son without a template, and the tenuous relationship he has with his aging mother. The first part follows the speaker in the days and years after his father’s death when he is nine. He attends karate lessons by a sensei who teaches kids with dead fathers, he sells things door to door from a magazine catalogue, he takes a trip to his aunt and grandmothers in Kentucky (going from Florida) to visit his father’s old room. The novel then pushes forward as the speaker is a father himself, watching his son grow up, observing and loving him in ways he thinks is right. At the moment, he’s a writing professor at a college in LA where he feels all his students are detached from his teachings. He takes his son, by that time a pre-teen, to skateparks and tries to become the role model he never had. Then, after receiving a gray notebook with his own father’s documentation of a journey from LA to San Francisco, he decides to follow in his father’s footsteps. His wife convinces his son to join him on the journey, acting as a final trip between the two before his son goes off to college. It’s during the trip the father begins to see how his son has pulled away from him. The father’s mother calls at times to talk about her new love affair, or the cactus she walked into at night, though the whole time, the father is somewhat cold to her while his son is the opposite. It’s not until they’re in San Francisco and it’s the last night when his son decides to go to a very fancy sushi restaurant. While there, he calls his grandmother to rate and rag on the food. It’s a moment where the father notes, “…it occurs to me that my experience of this meal is secondary to his, a feeling some parents must have all the time, and one I’ve had before but never this acutely.” It sums up how during the raising of his son, his focus hadn’t always been on his son.
 
Moffett has crafted a story that feels so propulsive in its language, it’s almost closer to a very long prose poem. It approaches its subject matter sometimes lightheartedly, sometimes serious, but always providing gut-punching lines. The novel crystalizes into a father’s realization of the way he loves and treats his son, and how that’s been put on the backseat when the grief of his own father towers above him. A truly powerful read.
 
Final Rating: 5/5